Pretty much everyone is going to lose their cool at some time and give their boyfriend a piece of their mind. Any healthy relationship will have a couple of misunderstandings here and there, but when you are arguing with your boyfriend, there are a few things you really should never say to a man.
Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #1 – Telling Him That you are Pregnant
A few women will tell a guy that they're pregnant when things begin to take a turn for the worse, with the hope that he'll stay with her.. This is a really bad idea. Maybe having a little rug rat is enough to make a woman's heart gush with joy, but if you and your boyfriend aren't precisely on the best terms, this is not going to help with things.
To start with, he'll feel unhappy because he'll think you're trapping him. If you make his blood boil, he's not going to be excited at the thought of having to deal with a child in addition to everything else.
On the flip side, if it's true that you're knocked up, your boyfriend is going to be scared--really scared. He may even try to get you to get an abortion. TV likes to depict men as mindless buffoons, but really most men aren't morons. They know that bringing a child into a troubled relationship isn't going to fix things.
Making up a story like this isn't likely to do you any good either. Do you really think it will help your situation if he thinks you're a manipulative liar too?
Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #2 – Telling Him You Fooled Around
Sometime things can get out of hand and you just want to make him feel some agony. Maybe you want to let him know that you hooked up with one of your coworkers that time you were working late at the office. I'd be lying if I said I never have done something similar. But how is this going to achieve anything? All it will do is piss off your boyfriend for ever trusting an easy woman like you.
All this will do is get you noticed as a cheater. Now, I'm going out on a limb here and I'm assuming that this isn't exactly the kind of history you're wanting for yourself.
Arguing with Boyfriend Blunder #3 – Telling Him He Doesn't Measure Up
This is definitely something you really don't want to bring up. Yeah, you'll probably make him feel lousy about himself. However, you'll just be cutting yourself down simultaneously.
This will only make you look incredibly superficial like all that you care about is size. This will only make you come across as the female equivalent to one of those guys that slobbers over every pair of long legs that walks by. This isn't how a stylish woman acts.
These three blunders are things that women seem to do frequently despite the fact that they simply end up backfiring on them. Trust me, I understand how tough it can be in the heat of the moment to stay cool, but you have to be sure that you act like a classy and refined woman. It may be tempting to try to humiliate your boyfriend, but it’s critical not to knock yourself down simultaneously.
Plus, the more stupid things you say, the more problems you’re going to need to fix if you want to save your relationship. I know it’s difficult to do so in the heat of the moment, but you must keep a long-term view. Ask yourself “is this something I’m going to regret saying later?” before you let it out.
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