Friday, July 16, 2010

5 Ways To Send The Green-Eyed Monster After Your Ex!

If you can make your ex jealous, it's a sure sign he still has feelings for you. If he still has feelings for you, he may want to start seeing you again, if they're strong enough. The tips discussed here on making a man jealous have been used by someone successfully many times. Use these strategies cautiously, though, because there is also a great chance that you'll annoy him and push him away forever.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #1

The first tip is this: for a while, just don't have anything to do with your ex at all. I know it doesn't seem to make sense, because you want to do things to catch his attention and make him jealous, but staying away will also get him thinking - perhaps you're over him, or perhaps you found some other guy . . . If you stop talking with him, he'll start wondering what's going on with you. You don't want him thinking you need him because he'll probably just get irritated and want nothing to do with you. The more time you go without talking with him, the more effective the next tips will be.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #2

Next - like the song says, "don't worry, be happy!" Do the things you enjoy doing, even if you're used to doing them with your ex. Most men think that a woman can't have a good time without them. Some of his jealousy will be because he'll realize that you were happy because of something that had nothing to do with him. In addition, just being happy makes a woman more attractive and sexy, which will definitely have an effect on him. Set aside time to do something you've been putting off, like taking a class in something special to you, or putting together a shopping trip with your friends. Another idea that a lot of women find useful is to get a makeover. Then you can move on to the third tip.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #3

The next tip to make an ex jealous is to invite him for dinner. You've got this happy, positive aura about you, and likely a new makeover as well, and it's time he saw them face-to-face. Remember, it's been a while since the two of you have spoken, even if he's seen you here and there or his friends have told him that your active and happy. Bring him up to date on what you've been up to and make sure he sees how happy you are. Don't you think it'll make him jealous to know that you're as happy as you are without him - and probably a lot more attractive than he remembers as well! Have a pleasant time with him and make it clear you want to be friends - then you're ready for the next tip.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #4

Next, date another man. Do you think that when he finds out you're seeing other men, he just won't care? Of course, getting back with your ex, if that's your goal, means you can't get seriously involved with anyone else. Thus, keep your dating light and friendly. The more of this sort of behavior you engage in, the greater the chance that your ex will know about it - especially if you travel in the same circles. It's knowing that someone else finds you attractive enough to date that will make him jealous - he'll be wondering if he missed something about you. Now before you embark on tip #5, be certain that you've dated enough to have a man you're comfortable with - you'll need him for tip #5.

Make An Ex Jealous Tip #5

This final tip is well-known, but it invariably elicits a reaction! Make certain to bring a date to any function you know your ex will be attending. There are all sorts of things, like parties and other celebrations. The key element of this strategy is that he can see you with your date. Make sure your ex is aware that you're there, and then just have a good time with your date - laughing, smiling, flirting . . . You know your ex, and so make sure you don't do anything that might make him lose his temper. Thus, even though you're having a good time, make sure to keep the situation under control. And remember your date's feelings as well - don't embarrass him!

After trying the foregoing tips, I'm confident you can fill your ex with jealousy to the point where he might even want to resume a relationship with you. Jealousy only grows where feelings still exist, of course - but if they do exist, you'll have nurtured them so that they're constantly in his mind and heart. Your actions might push him further away, of course, but that'll happen only if he no longer has any feelings for you. Of course, if he got jealous, that means the feelings are there, and he's thinking of you - a lot. It's up to you now to decide if you want to get back together with him.

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